Check it: no heavy carbs, no butter, no bread, no fryers. And even organic wines for no-sulfate fans. Healthy, hip cuisine at this new West Coast stop in OC. Here’s a look.

So can all this healthy curb your cravings and satisfy? We left delighted. On this preview night at this new haunt that took over The Clubhouse, our crew tasted all from fig flatbread and table-tossed greens to parmesan artichoke, a variety of main dishes and rows of sweet deserts—all paired with a range of vino.

The atmosphere was buzzing and swank. The staff; gregarious and thoughtful.

The offerings were rich for this Vegetarian (no chicken stock is even used in any recipes), and Season’s 52 happily accommodates no-Gluten foodies and probably any other preference you have.

I must say it was so nice to not worry about all the hidden calories. And everything is seasonally picked. When you get vegetables and produce at the height of its season, you don’t need all that fluff it up with extra calories and butter sauce,” said head Chef Timothy.

Also, there’s a piano bar inside the bar for live, relaxed soak-up-the-scene entertainment.

Opens to all, OC, Monday, August 30th.

More OC Live Looks ahead here, or keep up with me at Facebook, Twitter or YouTube.

Kids dig the place, water trampolines to 4-person bikes to family paddle boats. It’s a different vibe down at The Dunes than at an OC beach. I can’t really explain it, it’s more free and all kid at heart. Here’s a quick, live look when the Newport Dunes invited OC Family for the day.

Now about climbing that iconic whale ... Seriously I did it, and I think there may be some floating photographic evidence. Yes, the water was freezing, yes, I almost pulled my arm out of the socket getting up, and yes, my kids about fell over when they saw me on top, but it’s one of those things you have to do. (And it’s WAY harder than it sounds.)

The whole place took me back a bit to the carefree beach days of what I imagine the ‘50s or ‘60s to be. A little retro with big water toys and anything-goes. And missing was the absence of our sometimes “plastic-fantastic,” perhaps over-toxed OC.

Maybe it’s because you’re nestled in in the Back Bay away from it all, or maybe because there are a lot of vacationers who just want to chill and have fun. You just don’t see a lot of places in OC so relaxed and centered around good old-fashioned fun.

We really enjoyed hangin’ out all day till sundown with friends and doing ridiculous things like climbing an oversized whale till you about killed yourself.

In it’s own way, The Dunes is a little fountain of youth with an OC invite to be a kid and a place for the kids to seriously just play from toy to toy.

... And now that tourist season is winding down, you’ll have more toys, less crowds and more access to all the gear and water fun choices (bring life jackets if you got ‘em for toys and boats; sometimes limited availability).

Tell me if you climbed the whale!

How did I not sniff out this all-eco beauty loveshack Day 1? It’s all green, all-natural and all of only 3 in the US? Melvita has it all for women (and green guys). Head to toe, all the organic goods you could want.

I like the greenery’s offerings as I feel the boutique is legit. You see, I wonder about some of the organic products I’m offered out there and those I eye-spy while out and about. Are they FDA for real? Are they made in someone’s bathtub? I jest on that last part, but really, who knows.

So I know if FI backs them and they have the cash to rent the space they must be worthy. Worthy of the $14 I dropped on deodorant? Dunno yet. I’ll keep you posted, or you can stand real close next time you see me and judge for yourself.

Have you hit Melvita?
Are green goods on your list? At FI ... or TJs?

More OC Live Looks ahead.

What’s on the horizon in the OC? Here’s a quick Laguna look at many happenings going down; mainstream to lesser known.

I won’t weigh you down with all the links and urls, just wanted to call out 10-12 events on the OC radar ahead. If you want more scoop on any of the events here, I trust a quick Google will give you the full downlow in a flash.

And no I didn’t get all those in one take, for the love! Outtakes here:

More OC Live Looks ahead from me here, or keep up with me at OCFamily.com/DebbiesLiveLooks

It’s a local escape in a land that’s just a hop, skip and jump from Fashion Island: OCMA. Been there lately? Here’s a quick video look at the summer happenings: new exhibits and free fun for kids.

The new 15 Minutes of Fame exhibit has some amazing shots of a young Ali, sexy Marilyn and obscure shots of the famous and infamous. And what I love about the kids’ scene is they get kids to get hands-on artsy in the same manner of what’s going down in the gallery—on a kids’ level of course.

Enjoy if you go, we did.

Got a tiny dancer? Here’s a quick look at the best in OC dance: the Southland Ballet Academy and their new Irvine Studio (with free introductory classes).

My girl hit the academy this week to try their ballet camp, and she had a most charmed week that has got me seriously thinking about taking a shot at a future dancer. I’m all for the arts, as you may know, but the thing is I’m not a believer in raising a jack-of-all-trade, but master-at-none, overscheduled child. So I’ve put off trying my kids in multiple sports and interests, waiting for signs of the real deal. This academy has got me considering fueling my girl’s new heart’s desire.

I appreciate that the Academy is at the top of their game, that they have the most proven track record of students who go on to perform professionally, and I like the very accomplished dancers who are running the academy (some of the students now teaching have been there since 4 years old; which speaks volumes for the passion and organization.)

The group has a rich history in OC since 1983, but it’s new Irvine location (their second to their Fountain Valley studio) is very attractive for various reasons: it’s very modern, very accessible and is in a great area with various distractions for waiting parents.

By the way, the summer camp (check it out next year) was adorable with dance, crafts, cupcake fun and some Sleeping Beauty movie time, plus the kids put on their own “professional” concert at the end of the week.

Here’s to my tiny dancer, and perhaps yours, perhaps finding a real life love.

Do you have an Angelina Ballerina?

This time I was allowed to shoot and share the performance. You must see what you missed so you can go next year. And learn below what else is up at the Summer Festival series with the Pacific Symphony Orchestra. Let’s get right to it

Pretty spectacular, no? I seriously don’t overly gush on stuff often, but this night was amazing. The kids were wide-eyed and we all were highly entertained. If you don’t think kids and the symphony go together, maybe rethink that as the Summer Festival is really great way to expose the kids to the arts under the guise of really engaging entertainment. Ahead still this summer is the Tchaikovsky Spectacular with live thundering cannons shot off and fireworks, plus two other concerts in the series.

And if you didn’t catch my first story on pairing concerts with a picnic there, click here for the 411.

Oh, and here’s one other :60 look I shot and uploaded live during the Cirque Symphony show, which by the way is actually an old-school pairing; the circus and orchestra were often paired together before performances moved into concert halls.

Is the Fair just for the kids? It’s for everybody I think. All types, all walks of life, and anything goes. Let’s just say I haven’t seen that many cigarettes, tats and black tees since, well last year at the Fair. It’s eat at your own risk and ride at your own risk, right? Case in point? Click and take a a live look

Now I don’t know these clowns’ back story but I know they hang there every day at the Fair, and they don’t even work there. They were characters and I kinda liked there all-out spirit.

The theme is The Beat Goes for 2010 fairgoers, and it’s all the carnival crazy and fried everything you remember with some new concert names and a new Hanger attraction.

Things I forgot you may want to plan for:
-Your kids ADD disorder that switches on like a light when they walk through the entrance. So many rides, games and food vendors, all vying for their attention. Meltdowns are quick unless you have a fat wallet. Wish I’d said: 5 rides, 3 games, 3 foods, and we’re good. That kind a thing might have helped.

-It’s hot, baby! Go later in the day; the night scene is fun and has that old-school feel.

-Hit the free kids’ area asap to play games when your game $ runs out.

-Bring your sense of adventure, and let the chips fall where they may. I tried a Mexican funnel cake (churro sugar fried conglomeration) this time vs the regular. Verdict: not as good but fun to branch out.

Yea, I can stick it to the Fair, like we all can, it’s so easy; but truth is, there’s a cool sense of old-time community that breeds through that place. And I think at heart, it’s a bunch of people from all walks of life just being kids again out to have fun and hang with others. And you can’t knock that.

If you haven’t been, you must.

After years of hoping to get there, we finally did. Click for a :60 look at our day. The Huntington is everything I thought and much more. Much bigger. Many more garden themes. Remarkably meticulously manicured.

It’s so tranquil and the kids have a blast running about free in the massive fields of green. We went up and down and smelled the rows of roses in the Rose Garden, and it was indeed sweet.

Now it’s steamy up in the Pasadena area now, but still all good. You can also plan to hit the tea ceremony room (A/C!) with finger sandwiches, tea of course, fresh fruit, etc (call for a reservation though). And after your day, skip the traffic back to the OC and dine at Old Town Pasadena for a change of pace.

By the way, note the hours at The Huntington: 10:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., and it’s closed Tuesdays. Another good-to-know: there is a Free Admission Day. The Huntington is free to all visitors on the first Thursday of every month with advance tickets.

Enjoy if you go!

Take in fun, free, family flicks on the sand. We hit Newport Dunes Saturday night, and will be back for more for sure this summer. The kids are asking when already. Click for my look at the scene:

All the movie skinny on the Newport Dunes Movies on the Beach site.

What’s playing next? Everything from Cars, Aladdin and the Fantastic Mr. Fox to Princess and the Frog, Night at the Museum and The Bee Movie.

Bring your blankets, smore kits, coolers and chairs. And hit the Back Bay Bistro before if you wanna add some swank to the scene.

I think we are so lucky to have this outdoor concert venue (Verizon Wireless Amphitheatre) paired with the Symphony right in the middle of OC. I love the different classical theme nights from cannonball grandness to Cirque whimsy, the al fresco picnining with your family and the exposure of real arts with the kids.

I’d give you a listen but there’s no filming of the performances, so here’s a quick overview of the scene when we hit the first of the 5 festivals in the series opening night. Here’s a look:

My kids really enjoy the symphony series, we’ve gone for the past 3-4 years. It’s the grandness, the big production and the picnic’ing! Anything with food ups the fun factor, right? Well this year we paired the concert with a picnic catered by Bristol Farms catering, who were kind enough to let us sample their offerings:

I must say the picnic preorder was effortless. I was always intimidated: when to order, what to order, how to order, but let me tell you, it’s very easy. Eric & Pia at Bristol Farms rock: 949-760-6514. I particularly loved our cheese appetizer and the wine went down very smooth. And the kids couldn’t wait to dig into the brownies (of course). Pairing with Bristol Farms completes the refined symphony nature, and it’s quite a treat as opposed to personal pre-prep and the haul up the hill. You simply arrive at the PSO gate and your cuisine is ready and waiting to enjoy.

Not sure your kids will be down for the symphony? Give it a go. It’s now become tradition with us.

With summer on and kids out, escapes are are the rage. Question is do you staycay close or vacay far away? I personally don’t know anyone planning lavish trips to Hawaii, Florida, or (cough$, cough!) Europe. Those I know are all staying close. That said, here is a great, close getaway that feels big resort without a big luxe budget.

La Quinta is a hacienda hideaway 20 miles SE of Palm Springs and 2 hr. drive from OC. It’s lush (yes I said lush in the desert), as luxe as you want it to be, on 43 acres, has 800 rooms, 41 pools, golf, tennis and optional excursions like horseback riding, hot air ballooning etc. Here’s my :50 pool scene look before I go further to get you in the resort vibe (note all vids shot & edited on new iPhone 4 with new iMovie app, pretty cool):

And an overall quick downlow on the Resort:

Peak season is Feb./March, so now’s the time to snag key room rates ($150/night’ish). And if you are up for saving$, come cooler in tow, pack drinks and food and go picnic style to the pool, or head back to the room to dine anytime. With 41 pools, you always have at least 4 pools steps from your door.

Or you can splurge a little, enjoy The Spa (most intense facial ever, see my video), dine at Adobe Grill (authentic Mexican dining, see my video), grab cocktails at the main pool and go shopping (I hit Tommy Bahama for my new suit, see Whrrl below).

My gushes on the resort: it’s amazingly kid- & pet-friendly, the 41 pools were such a luxury (hop to the next if some kid’s crying, the hottie in the thong comes and sits down by your hubby, you’re suddenly amongst a family reunion, you get the idea), how it’s a massive resort yet really has an intimate feel—and I adored the night scene with warm breeze, margaritas and hacienda Plaza charm, video evidence:

My caveats and good-to-know’s: hello, it’s 105. If you can’t take the heat, stay outta the desert. If you stay in the water, it’s bliss (every pool is perfect temp). Bring your water toys, rafts, etc.; kids are welcome to use all. Also, it’s not just a family getaway, could be a Moms Weekend Away, Guy’s Golf Bromance Vacay or a Couples Retreat.

Also, here’s my whrrl look at more of the La Quinta Resort and some fun shots of my Lab, Teddy, who joined us (private dog rooms & dogs welcome everywhere there):

I’m not pimping this powdery mineral magic potion for any other reason that I love it, and want others to know its wonder. Really. If you sweat sunscreen these days … brands, chemicals, burning eyes, grease, get to know this natural sunmazingness from ColoreScience.

I discovered it while getting a facial at The Montage, and put it on my Mother’s Day wish list. So I’ve used it often since and it’s better than I imagined.

The gush is genuine, and I have our $63’ish receipt to prove it. I know $63 for sunscreen? Say what! It’s worth it. I hate chemical anything. I hate sunscreen burning my eyes (struggle every pool season), I don’t like the greasy number it does on my pores and I’m all for no sun aging damage on my face. That said, I just had to try this waterproof (how’s that possible, I know?) powder fabulousness for more than my one-time Montage application.

My family indulged me Mother’s Day and the ColoreScience has delivered on all my demands. But what surprised me most was that I was using it on the rest of my family too (sharing my “Mom’s only, don’t touch!” luxe treat).

Everywhere we go, I have it in my purse—with no worry that it will spill and goo my our purse paraphernalia. And I swipe the kids and hubby whenever sun hits. The close their eyes, I powder ‘em up in seconds and we’re done. No “You got it in my eyes. It burns. Ooh I don’t want any.” None of the above. Even the hubby doesn’t get burned now.

It’s changed my daily battle and life in a way. I stress less, am pampering my skin naturally and am not fighting with my kids!

Give it a go. I got mine for faces, but also have brushed it on bodies at the beach. The line also comes with a roller ball (pictured here, maybe better for bodies), and it’s available in shades (makeup shades like a foundation); if you’re going for all-family coverage, I suggest perfectly clear.

Just wanted to share the love. Anything to breathe easier. Happy summer, my sun-kissed (not fried) friends.

OC moms, you can pick it up at Spa Montage gift store, (or order online). And by the way, here’s my Montage Moms’ video escape if you really want to be good to yourself.

Much to say about the World of Color night and insider tips, but I’ll let my video speak for itself. Here’s WOC and the new Glowfest back to back with a goofy bit my kids instigated. Hit it.

So what did I think of the show (25 minutes btw)? I thought my kids loved it. My girl adored Arial, my guy loved Buzz, and my hubby was diggin’ the fire and pirates (the Johnny Depp bit did have serious cool factor).

I personally didn’t grow up going to Disney as I’m a transplant, so I don’t have the die-hard connection, so it’s all about creating my kids’ memories. And while much will be said in great lengths about the show, my girl described it as “great and very pretty.” My guy, “wow,” I think Walt would have liked that just fine.

And Glowfest? You gotta go. Very fun and funky, and so I want that martini next time. For a little more on our night, see my live whrrl photo story below. 

I was outfitted for the wild, zebra and all, as we hit Wild Rivers—my son’s family birthday pick. Now I’m not really the scream-your-head-off, rider Mom-type. Sure I was as a kid, but that usually changes. I’m more the chillax by the pool and sunbathe with a cocktail. But when the kids bat those pretty-please eyelashes, it’s amazing what I’ll do.

So I actually rode lots. My kids rode everything numerous times with the hubby. My faves: the big family slide that goes seriously fast, the boat ride (longest wait, so go early in day to skip lines maybe) and I had fun on double-rider tubes with the kids.

The “toilet-plunger” (we call it), was thumbs down and two Tylenol from this mama. You zoom down tubes hands behind head, it whips you around, circles you into a toilet-like bowl, then plunges you in a pool. My 5-year old rode it two more times (whacked), while my girl and I went to the warming pools (ahh).

Lots to do for all ages, and cool for all ages. There’s the family vibe, teen scene, and baby pool (always warm). One place with lots of range.

Anyway, it was a fun time, even for this way chillax Mom. And the kids loved seeing me slip, slidin’ and screamin’ my head off.

Check my Whrrl story below for coupon savings this season and some park tips. I think it’s gonna be a perfect summer for all the wet and wild.

PS, pack sandwiches, drinks and snacks and you’ll save a bundle. You can picnic outside the park or sneak some items in.

Best OC picnic and party pickups. Gourmet Pacific Whey to Gina’s Pasta. Why sweat the cooking, when you can dial, dash and just enjoy yourself. Cheers.

Get the picnic or party started with more gourmet and less headaches. Here’s a list of some PLM fave foodies that cater.

Pasta Love: Order from Gina’s Pizza and Pasteria and pick up chilled pasta salad bliss with mozzarella cheese, veggies, ranch dressing. ALWAYS a hit. Main meal or side dish good. (They also have very good pizza, hence the name.)

Mexican Style: Say hello to their little friends. Las Golondrinas has mini burritos perfect for the party’s little people. They also have massive portions for big people ... tamales, tacos, yea the whole enchilada. It’s a little known joint in Laguna Niguel with cater-size portions.

Chic Sandwiches: Why do the same ol’ sub scene when there’s Cosi at South Coast Metro? They’ll whip up healthy, hearty party sandwiches that are upscale in taste and presentation. They also have great salads too.

Salad, Anyone?: Speaking of must-have greens, Cosmos Italian Kitchen offers large-sized salads for parties. Seek the John’s creamy Italian dressing fyi. OMG good.

Veggie Good: Lucille’s BBQ is perfect for party-size portions of corn on the cob and other veggies. Down home style recipes (psst, many like the macaroni too.) Chaparosa Grill is another way to go for veggies more on the gourmet side and presentation-pretty.

Fruity & Fresh: Pacific Whey (several locations now) has amazingly fresh, fruit bowls that guests will rave about during and after. It’s not just fruit, it’s in-season, exotic perfection: kiwis, papaya, pineapple yum. You can also hit ‘em up for their famous desserts. Over-the-top good stuff.

With so many options—and many very affordable—why cook and cleanup when you can dial and go? Enjoy the summer outta the kitchen, OC moms!

Just a short vlog I did for my Martini Monovlogs at the Orange County Moms Blog. Topic to toast: Moms, kids and pets.

We all know how much we adored pets as a kid, so why do some moms rob their kids of the love as we grow up?

Mess and maintenance don’t outweigh the memories, compassion and nonverbal communication pets can give. At least in my book. And there are so many kinds of pets to chose from for space, allergy and mess matters.

At any rate, cheers to the moms who share the love!

My family and I attended Opening Night of Disney’s The Lion King Tony® Award-winning Broadway performance. We really had a great time, click to take a live look and get firsthand input. The curtain’s up at the Orange County Performing Arts Center for a limited 3-week engagement through June 13. I really was blown away.

 
See the renowned performance of animals brought to life by award-winning director Julie Taymor and paired with the score by Elton John and Tim Rice’s Oscar®-winning song “Can You Feel The Love Tonight” and “Circle of Life.”

Now in its second sold-out decade in New York, the global phenomenon is the winner of more than 70 major awards worldwide, including the 1998 Tony Award® and NY Drama Critics Award for Best Musical, the 1999 Grammy® for Best Musical Show Album and the 1999 Laurence Olivier Awards for Best Choreography and Best Costume Design. The show has been seen by over 50 million people in 13 different countries.

Tickets start at $25.75. Visit OCPAC to purchase tickets.

I’m a friend and fan of the fun and multitalented Janeane Bernstein, who is hosting a great event this Sunday, May 23rd. “Momz Rock the House Radio celebrates the Mind, Body and Spirit in association with The Orange County Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure® and the Lupus Foundation of America.”

This year’s event will take place on Sunday, May 23, from 1 p.m to 4 p.m. at Original Mike’s in the downtown Art District of Santa Ana.

The event will feature Mamapalooza and the Motherhood Foundation, local businesses and entertainment from The Momz Rock the House Show.

Tickets are just $12, and buy you an afternoon of entertainment all for a great cause.

More event info at here.

If you’re more hipster than you are hippie, and you like cosmetics without all the chemical cocktail, there’s an OC green resource you might want to checkout.

Green4YourSoul.com has gathered some great fab finds that you’ll find more in high-fashion mag pages than on the shelves of Mother’s Market

And what’s nice about this OC e-store is that they’ve done all the green homework for you. Owner and local green girl, Christin Sheehe, searches high and low for the best organic bets.

You’ll find green gets from cosmetics, hair, bath & body to those for babies, pets and the home. Like always, I try not to reco anything that I haven’t tried, so I gave the bestseller Max Green Alchemy Shampoo and Conditioner a go and was green-happy with the scent and color-safe recipe.  (Elle ranked it a Best Pick for Green line.)

I also went all-out orange in the natural Zoya nail polish, voted longest wearing. It’s perfect for summer, but I’d probably go Raven Black for Fall.

The site is definitely breathe-easy with everything all in one place, so you don’t have to surf the web from site to site or burn the gas fumes traveling from Aveda to Lush to sample what’s new. And I dig that Christin’s finds are glam, because it’s nice to live green and still embrace style.

Green on, OC moms, as it gets easier to do so every day.

Care to comment? Green in on the PLM Facebook page.

I may be Veggie Burgers and Vodka. So I’m really hoping to make this Saturday event in Brea,” You Are What You Eat.” The day explores food and how it affects us. Speakers, panelists and authors include Mariel Hemingway, Ann Gentry of Real Food Daily, Kim Barnouin author of Skinny Bitch, Anna Getty, Sally Kravitch, Dr. Lauren Feder, Delilah Snell, Jules Blaine Davis, Deanna Moore, Al Morentin and more.

Expect:
*Book signings, Quick Tip expert table tips
*Over 50 vendors to taste, try, learn and shop
*FREE childcare AND eco-friendly activities for the kids (SCORE!)
*The Green Truck from L.A. selling ORGANIC grub
*The Pop Shop selling: Lemon and Basil popsicles
*Sprouts Photography taking portraits of your little ones
*Goody bags for the first 200 guests
*Raffles every hour

Cost is $10 for adults over 12 and are available at the door on the day of the event (CASH ONLY)

Complete May 15th event info at: Belly Sprout

If jeans are your enemy, you may want to friend a new line now hitting Nordies and Bloomies. Miraclebody Jeans have secret tech tummy control and magic shaping threads to make you look 10 lbs lighter in 10 seconds.

My girlfriend, Momfluential, hosted a jeans party recently where we all tried on the jeans and ladies left looking good and feeling fab. “They actually fit my ass!” was a fave quote still ringing in my head.

The line has all sorts of styles: midrise, jeggings and more. They run $110 a pair and you can learn all the skinny at their site. So what are real ladies saying? A look at our jeans night below.

I lost it at my Weight Watchers meeting today. And I’m not talking lb’s. I’m talking Kleenex, stat! Slight mental breakdown in progress.

With swimsuit season near, and a jeans party last night, it was all too much reality for this queen of spin and sometimes denial.

You see my friend hosted a fabulous Miraclebody jeans gathering last night. I went and the jeans indeed sucked 10 lbs off me, but I was still miserably uncomfortable on the way home in the size I “thought” I was. The party was just the kick in the stitched denim ass I needed. I looked up my Weight Watchers meeting location time, and returned today—after a 15-month, uh, “sabbatical” (to focus on other things, since I so had the weight thing handled since dropping major pounds since my last kid).

So there I was at the same WW location, with my same WW card, in the same vanilla decorated space. I was so back—but almost 20 lbs heavier. I made it through the meeting fine, but then the leader approached me after to review tools. Cue the waterworks.

Suddenly, out of nowhere, I lost it. It was that Mack truck moment that hits you sometimes. The reality of how I failed my goal and was now doing something all over again that I said I never would was just too much. And apparently, it was all bigger than the double-digit pounds I had to lose.

The very kind, business-like WW lady turned instant, involuntary Life Coach looked at me and asked one question: “How many kids do you have?” (noting the one I had with me). I said, “Two.” Which she followed with, “Where’s the time for you?” Yep. 2 kids. 1 husband. 1 essentially full-time freelance job. 2 sites. 2 blogs. 1 dog. 1 new bunny. 1 house. And 1 spent Mama. (You know, the normal Mom math, plus or minus 1 or 2.)

My Mack truck was my WW meeting, but everybody has their own point at which it’s clearly evident that they’re in neutral, reverse or on empty.

“Forgive yourself. You realized it. You’re doing something. And we can do this.” she told me.

So here’s to a Skinny Bitch healthy eating, balanced mama, who looks great in the latest mix-match suit, and with or without her miracle jeans.

This was also a Debbie’s Hot Topic at my OC Family column.

8 of us were treated to a day of perfection at The Montage for a Pre-Mother’s Day Retreat. If you haven’t booked your special day yet, here is a look at what you can expect from The Montage May 9th—or any day.

We got Momosas the moment we walked in, and it got better and better from there. We toured, spa’d, had a fantastic time of wine & cheese tasting, plus we got to chill and dine poolside at our leisure. All of which you can find and enjoy any day at The Montage Laguna Beach resort paradise. All the particulars on their Mother’s Day and mom retreats are here on their website.

Enough talk, take a look at the reward you can look forward to for all your hard work 365 days a year:

Also below is a whrrl live photo story of the fun I shared on this fabulous day hosted by TheGoToMom.com. The 7 other bloggers I was fortunate enough to share the day with have these awesome following sites: http://www.Lajollamom.com, http://www.LosAngelista.com, http://www.Momfluential.com, http://www.Socalmom.net, http://www.SweatPantsMom.com and http://www.Techmamas.com. Our collective live whrrl below:

Want more Montage?
Check out my recent video of cocktailing at The Montage to find the best mixologists in OC. And also, my weekend getaway at The Montage that I won on Twitter.

Cruise with no kids, no chaos, no worries. Who’s not on board for the next Pampered Lady cruise, July 25th?

When it comes to mind and body, I know fewer quick fixes than a 3-hour cruise aboard a luxury yacht with flowing champagne, massages and the fresh ocean air. The Pampered Lady cruise, hosted by Parenting OC magazine invites ladies to set sail several times a year. On a recent cruise, a feisty crew embarked out of Newport harbor, ready to let their hair down. I couldn’t resist.

As we walked from deck to deck, all were summoned to take a “break from life,” to dine, mingle and get treatments from fun new do’s and sparkly makeup to deep-tissue rubs and energy healing to mobile tanning and foot-ahh reflexology.

Gourmet spreads met an open bar of wine and bubbly, paired with live music, gambling and giveaways that seemed to happen from launch to dock.

We were wined, dined and left to fully unwind. Enough said? The next cruise sets sail July 25th. Till then here is the PLM photo story to make you fell like you were there, minus the actual chocolate martinis (sorry to tease). Click the big, gorgeous yacht below to see the day.

(And by the way, this photo story is done in whrrl, a new free program on whrrl.com that lets you tell a story on the go. Just shoot from your iPhone, or any camera phone, add a few captions, and that’s it. Instantly live for friends and family! And a story link to forward anytime later. No downloading, no uploading, no time suck of any kind. As you know, PLM is all about breathe-easy and in the moment.)

So here’s my “three-hour cruise, a three-hour cruise…”

Another great BlogCrush meetup last night at Z’Tejas at South Coast Plaza. The mingling and margaritas with a divine pair, mixed in with some seriously delicious southwestern cuisine.

I love meeting and catching up with blogger friends in real life, and also discovering new secret, swank hangs.

To think I didn’t even know of Z’Tejas? They were exteremely good to us as they kept the appetizers and drinks flowing freely. And I hear kids eat free there on Sundays? I’m so there, as I adore kid-friendly joints without the circus atmosphere.

Thanks Z’Tejas and thanks Suz of OC Family & Alive in Wonderland and Marcy also at OC Family and The Glamorous Life for, once again, organizing a great meetup.

Here’s a live look below at the night and more on BlogCrush.

It’s a new chic stop in Aliso Viejo. Modern Romance, which just opened at Town Center is home to many sexy summer maxi dresses and contemporary clothes. And the prices are a great fit too. I stopped in as a passer-by and left with hands full of in style fashions for all occasions. Theresa Johnson owner of Modern Romance named the store after her concept of the modern woman. The Aliso location is the second in the chain, with the first founded at Fashion Island.

What I loved about the store is that it has a lot of fresh styles, all easy to wear, and the store is easy to breeze through without a lot of clutter of racks to look through. Hey, Summer’s almost here, so if you need to modernize your look, think Modern Romance. I walked with an everyday black tube dress, canary yellow, gauzy Boho look, a short everyday dress look and a black cover to throw on anytime.

Is Pelican Hill on your list of places to get away to? It’s a dreamy OC staycation and often gets lost in the “members only” category. Check out my visit for a Mom’s Day Off with OC Family. You may get ideas of for a great escape and learn a few things about the resort’s personality

Of course the resort was indulgent and inviting, but what stood out to me about The Spa at Pelican Hill was the very gracious, humble nature; it was so in contrast with the grandness. Our very kind host, Kasia, spoke about how the spa goes beyond expertise and into the realm of giving hearts with carefully chosen healing hands in their team of experts. It was very much a mind, body and soul experience that I welcomed, and found quite refreshing.

A photo look at our day of spa’ing, dining and sending the kids off to Camp Pelican.

Hey, cocktails and motherhood can be besties, right? So I stepped up to the bar for OC Family, along with a team of fellow journalists and media, to judge the 1st annual OCeanfront Cocktail Shakeoff. (And you can too, more on that.) First, take a look at what and who is in the competition. Here’s how our whirlwind shakeoff of 6 cocktails at 6 luxe lounges in 7 hours went down:

My video blog:

So we were whisked down PCH from 2-9pm, from one luxe oceanfront hotel to the next. It really was grueling. Our fine palettes (stop laughing) and discriminating tastes came into play, as well as the cocktail’s appearance, theme and originality. All of the below rocked.

And while we picked our winner, all of OC picks an OC fave winner now through May 24th! So go sip the sweet palatial paradise and vote through May 24th! Visit any of the resorts with a $10 Facebook coupon (fan OCeanfront to get yours) then vote your fave taste on Facebook. Bonus: any one who votes on Facebook gets entered to win a round of drinks for four at South Coast Plaza’s Marche Moderne or Charlie Palmer at Bloomingdales. Even better.

Recipes all here as well via my OCeanfront friends.

Little more to whet the appetite? Here’s my live whrrl. Click anywhere below to meet some of my fellow media friends, and see more of the drinks and night. Amazing I could still form complete sentences at the end (starting to think this is why Suz was “busy”).  Salud! And yes, this is why this is posted in Health & Body. Because a relaxing, tropical, exotic drink or 2 (or 6) can sometimes do a body and Mom mind good.

Live photo look at the luxe night:

I won a weekend of luxe living at The Montage, so I thoroughly soaked up the scene. And with Summer Staycation plans on, I thought I’d share some insider scoop on the surprisingly approachable, kid-friendly land of local Laguna luxury.

My video look at a weekend away (psst, be sure to tune in to the end for a sweet wildlife cameo.)

As mentioned, I really was enlightened at how much of a community hang The Montage really is. I saw neighbors, coworkers and friends of friends—all out locally at this world-class destination. Here’s also a live photo look at our weekend away, which felt like a world away.

Want more Montage? Who doesn’t.
More from me at Montage during a getaway day at their Spa. Click for the story and fun video look.

Perhaps my favorite time of year at Disney— the Wine & Food Festival. Lots of ahh, perfect temps and inspired living. Don’t know if you’ve been, but Disney’s California Food & Wine Festival is almost on.

This year the “The Art of Flavor festival” runs for 45 days from April 16-May 31. There are all kinds of events like daily demos with culinary and celebrity chefs, including Guy Fieri, and seminars, if you wanna call ‘em that, on featured wine, beer and spirits.

Plus there are Signature Events* (code for: extra fee required or even gift ideas for friends/family). Here’s a lists of some of the happenings:

Festival Wine Walks and Beer Walks
Daily. Tastings of fave flavors, and discover new vino loves and beers as you stroll through Stage 12, at the Festival Showplace.

Winemaker Dinners
Fridays: April 23, 30, May 14 & 21, 6:30-9. Award-winning wines paired with culinary creations at Steakhouse 55, with Chef Jason Martin

New Brewmaster Dinner
Fri May 7, 6-9. Join experts from Karl Strauss Brewing Company for delicious food paired with beers, at Steakhouse 55.

New Riedel Glass Tasting
Saturdays, April 24, May 28, 6:45-8. Interesting class led by an expert from Riedel, learn why the glass matters when it comes to wine tasting. Guests swag bag: a tasting set of 4 Riedel Vinum series lead crystal wine glasses.

Sweet Sundays
April 18, May 2, 9, 16, 23 & 30
10:30am-12:30pm. Sunday morning buffets featuring swank desserts from acclaimed pastry chefs, at the Festival Showplace inside Disney’s California Adventure.

Taste Wine Like an Expert
Saturdays: May 1, 8, 15 & 22, 2-4pm. Chill education with Sommelier Joy Cushing of Napa Rose restaurant

Napa Rose Cooking School
Saturdays: April 17, May 1, 8, 15 & 22, 10:00am-1pm. Exec Chef Andrew Sutton of Napa Rose leads you in preparing a 4-course gourmet meal. Guests get a commemorative chef’s coat, embroidered with the Festival logo.

See you there (shot above from ‘09), full deets and tic info at: http://www.disneyland.com/foodandwine

Here’s a look at the chill scene:

Kid proof. Beach proof. Pool proof. Ahh, ZsuZsi.

Swim suit season is sneaking up on us, but who says ya wanna shake what your mama gave ya when you’re a mama with kids to chase, sand castles to scoop or laps you’d like to swim?

If it seems like the only thing in the stores is the Itty Bitty OC Bikini, or the other end of the spectrum: the Matron Mama one-piece, ZsuZsi may be your summer breathe easy.

ZsuZsi is a new local line of athletic swim couture. Fashion designer and international athlete, Stephanie Kozowyk, who grew up with 20 years of ill-fitting suits, gave PLM the swim scoop.

“I used to shop with my friends and we would all get so frustrated shopping for swimsuits. We took great care of ourselves and would always end up asking, ‘Why can’t we look great and be active?’ And I’d interview Moms who were athletic, or getting back to fitness and some were wearing a sports bra with a bikini bottom and others just gave up and settled for the Speedo one-piece! I had enough and decided to break the mold.”

Enter ZsuZsi. Sassy, comfortable, practical suits where form meets function. Nothing rides up and everything stays in one place. Choose from three smart styles: the unique Ringback Sportkini, the fuller fit Eno Sportkini or the the slimming, with-it one-piece.

So you can be on kid patrol, play, have a long swim or lounge with girlfriends—all in the same stylish suit.

What’s with the ZsuZsi (pronounced zshoo-zshee) name? “It’s my mom’s name. She’s always been my inspiration and I love to say her name.”

Check out the chic ZsuZsi line at Keeli’s in Dana Point or you can order online.

I did a giveaway and the lucky winner of the PLM Zsu Zsi Swim Giveaway was: Gabrielle T, mom of 2 (dang, Gabrielle!). Here she is in here Zsu Zsi. Read more about her and her win.

Are your kids Chipmunk junkies. Mine are. We hit The Angels vs Dodgers preseason game this past weekend, where Alvin and team were in force to rock the release of the Squeakquel on DVD and Blu-ray disc.

Here’s a whrrl look at the day. I’ve got five copies to give away, as well. And will be doing so on Twitter over the next few days. First to RT my tweets wins. I’m @DebLavdas if you tweet.

Here’s the whrrl, click anywhere below to see the story.

Few fun AudioBoos too from the day, just click to play.

Ready to go naturally healthy? Lose the chemicals and add honey with the all-natural line out of New Zealand. Natural Being Skincare just dropped in the states. Its Manuka Honey and Oil are the secret botanicals.

Another secret is that you can get the whole line for under $100. Just try and compare Aveda with that. 

I took my eco part in the 30-day New You Natural You challenge and tried the complete line. They were quality goods for sure, and I’m still blown away by the price, as well as the idea that it all seems to last so long. A few things you’ll notice: the honey has a naturally firming agent, so it tightens as it is applied (but it’s temporary, not botox, ladies.). The toner is a gel, which is very unusual. And the fragrance is less flowery than most lines; think that’s the all-naturalness.

Below is my whrrl photo story from the post-party challenge that was recently held at the new Madison’s Spa in Laguna Beach.

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The post party Whrrl fun:

Every day Moms are near losing their minds from too much of the same ole, same ole. Too often we’re stuck inside on kid patrol or stuck behind a desk in company isolation. So here’s just a little reminder to get out there when we can.

I recently signed on for a few jaunts outside my comfort zone, and had a great time. It’s so easy to say, “No,” but know that you’re also saying no to new experiences, new people, new ways to blow off some steam.

OC has lots going on and some great quality people.

Here’s a look at a recent Girls’ Day Out for Temecula Winetasting with some OC Twitter pals, many of whom I just met in real life. All age gals, some kids/some no kids and all ready to play. The fab, fun Dana Sipper of Sipper Photography captured the above shot, as well as other great glimpses of the day. Click below on my Whrrl below to see the fun as it happened.

Have you been to the Hyatt in Huntington? The Spa is divine for any Mom looking a for pampering and a little pause.

My OC Family pals and I were treated to a night out a few months back and I was amazed at the hotel. It’s the size of 13 football fields, waterfalls flow everywhere you look, and it felt like I’d left OC and escaped to Hawaii.

Since going, I’ve gone back several times, for shopping their their gift shop, for Valentine’s dinner and for just a casual patio lunch.

Their new Mom Monday’s are a perfect way to check out the hotel and spa this Spring. You get 25% off at Pacific Waters Spa and a special $15 per child, per hour discount at Camp Hyatt.

Carol, who runs the spa sums up the Spring offer by saying, “Mom’s Mondays are our way of giving mothers some “me time” with the comfort of knowing the kids are nearby having fun.” You in? Res line: 714.845.4772.

Take a look at our collective whrrl photo story from our night out to see the place firsthand.

If you’re looking for a fun OC getaway ... and you’re into or thinking of getting into blogging ... get to Blog Crush OC. We meet monthly at a different OC cocktail haunt. It’s a great group to hang and network with, who aren’t afraid to try new things and reach a little outside the comfort zone.

Stay up to date on the Blog Crush OC Facebook page (230 members and growing), where you’ll also be kept in the loop about blog-related good times like the recent Page to Stage BlogUp OC: think stand up for bloggers. We each read a piece IRL (in real life).

My pals, Marcy and Suz head the OC group and do all the fab organizing.

Here is my live photo story from the recent Page to Stage event, where I read…and survived (perhaps thanks to some liquid courage in a can). Click anywhere on the image below to see the night.

My petition to kick the dude out of OC. Let’s cleanse of county of this character with no character. I say exile him to a land of cheaters and major life disappointments. Or we could just go Mad Max style. Tiger and Jesse, 2 men enter, 1 man leaves (maybe that’s 2nd offense). Petition first probably.

Video gaming and kids are always hot topics with moms. So I hit DreamWorks for a sneak peek of their new Kung Fu Panda World. The skinny, a video blog and talk of if gaming’s good.

For the first time ever, DreamWorks invited a few bloggers to the campus to get the Kung Fu lowdown and also tour the great DreamWorks land. I’ll share the game 411, then give you the “behind the gates.”

Kung Fu Panda World is the first in online gaming for the animation imagination wizards. It launches March 26th and appears to have serious graphic game, parent-safety and a killer fun-factor for kids 7-13. The World competes with Webkinz and the like, as well as older pop rivals. And I suspect, it will overtake, as DreamWorks has gone all out for near two years amping graphics that go way beyond stairstep movements and keeping the thrill alive for kids (aka, no burnout factor). And the World also acts like a pre-Facebook space for the older tweens with its social peer play.

Now my kids are 4 and 6, so I really haven’t delved into the gaming arena yet. That said, I chatted with head creator and DreamWorks man for 14 years, Rick Rekedal. I drilled him a bit on our Gen Computer Kids and the role of video. While talking game and swapping some toy stories (I wrote/shot many Mattel commercials a few yrs back), Rick ‘fessed of his own family: “Oh us? We’re a total book family.” (Serious book family, like Dakota vacations to Little House on the Prairie land, really.) So I’m thinking, say what?! You’re the gaming guy. What gives?

Well, as suspected, this best-of-the-best tech animator gamer still values old-school imagination. For his 3 girls, computer time is very limited and used as a reward. I got the sense of moderation meets safe fantasy play. I dig that, and I share this if you’re a mom like me, resisting the video world reality. Let’s face it: Resistance is Futile, right. As he said, think: of gaming as a reward system, set time limits, but let the kids have the fantasy fun. So after my day at DreamWorks, I just may embrace what’s next and that which my wanna-be Apple kids have been begging mom for: some computer time!

Oh, the Kung Fu Panda World gaming is a subscription service ($5.95/month) and kids can create their own Kung Fu identities, challenge other kids in Kung Fu showdowns and ultimately become the Dragon Warrior. (And you get games for big people too.)

Now ... onto the behind the gates. Cue the choir. “Ahhh.” Seriously. The company headquarters rock. A river runs through the place, waterfalls gush like Niagara (also paired with some koi tranquility of course), and nature surrounds. Creativity flows literally and before the eyes in all directions.

Check the whrrl and my 1-minute video for more vibe. It was a great day, and, hey, I walked away with much more than tech specs about their new launch (as I hope you have). “Gaming is good?” You decide.

And here’s a short AudioBoo of Rick talking about the team and the magic:

Are you game? Good with gaming? Up for $5.95/mo for DreamWorks genius and online peace of mind?

If, in fact, it comes out that the San Diego guy is a Prius 911 liar, I think he and the Heaney parents need to be sent off in an extra large Jiffy Pop ballon and flown away to oh, I don’t know … Iraq. There maybe they could go fight for our freedom of speech and see why it shouldn’t be messed with and how you shouldn’t go shooting your mouth off for nonsense to get attention.

That said, I don’t know about you, but I’m not buying the latest 911 Prius call that happened in San Diego last week. I mean, why didn’t the guy just didn’t throw the car in neutral when the 911 operator asked him to do so, as he was flying down the freeway nonstop? How come nobody has heard of this problem? Why can’t anybody prove it? And why are experts talking hoax? And oh yea, the guy owed like $700,000 in debt; there’s always that.

I’m fired up that this James Sikes guy could stoop to such new lows in such real life-and-death dealings. People’s lives are at stake (families, innocent kids, genuine green do-good’ers) and the Toyota company is in shambles and desperately trying to resolve safety issues for drivers. And to think some San Diego schmuck might be out to get attention—at the expense of busy CHPs—and at the price of everyone’s jittery nerves.

And I don’t even drive a Prius! Up until last week I would have had little to say about Toyota except possibly slamming their standard operating procedures and their not being near as forthcoming as they should have with the public. But, suddenly, this guy’s frantic 911 call, brought into perspective the no-win situation Toyota must be in. Here they are trying to track all driver’s acceleration problems (on top of other engineering errors it now seems), and you’ve got Balloon-Boy-like cries for fame and lawsuit cash putting the brakes on the real matters at hand.

The original Prius 911 call where the family died (hear it if you can bear it) that started the whole nightmare will forever live in my memory. I can’t shake it. I’m haunted by its tragedy. And I may never, ever buy a Toyota now—at least not for many, many years to come I can *safely* say.

This just isn’t a matter to mess with.

And it’s worth noting that I’m talking as a parent and shopper here, who chooses vehicles for many reasons, but top of mind is always how the safety gurus weigh in. Additionally, I’ve probably spent about 10 years of my career writing about automotive brands (Jag, Land Rover, Mazda, Ford and more), and I know what these companies go through, I’ve been PR-alerted to recalls, but I have never seen such horrendous happenings of course as what’s going down at the “ever-reliable” Toyota.

It’s a bad, bad scene. And I think Mr. James Sikes did a bad, bad thing.

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What do you think? Hype or from the heart?

If I’m wrong? Awesome. Let everybody think twice out of making money off of a family’s tragedy, as well as others’ real tragedies possibly waiting to happen.

Awareables.com is a fave clothing line of mine about positive thinking, positive energy and changing your outlook from the inside out.

Their high-style bamboo and cotton tees have all kinds of sayings: “Green Is Sexy,” “Gratitude Rocks,” “Grounded for life,” “Shift Happens” and more. They’re about how change is constant and how negative thinking is so out of style. The tees have a sexy, great fit and they make you feel good inside, too. Expect many comments as you head outside. People will probably reading your tee, think for a moment and smile. You’ll be reminded of thinking a little bigger, kinder and with more gratitude and stress less when wearing them

They’re also great for conversation, as so many people have their guards up all the time, particularly here in OC and LA. You’ll be surprised how many people will start conversations with you when they see you’re approachable and thinking positive. Two awesome women, Betsy Mendel and Rachael Singer, started the line. They left their day jobs for a life more inspired. Another example to follow your heart. Change your thinking, change your life.

Unwind or amp your day with The 88. I’m loving this LA Indie band I saw at The Echo recently. They have a fresh, funky, fun sound that’s great for the everyday. The name? Think 88 keys on the piano….88 constellations in the sky….the infinity sign….88 cities in Los Angeles, and well, you get it.

And you may not know the name, but you’ve probably heard their tunes on “Grey’s Anatomy”, “Laguna Beach”, “Gossip Girl”, the theme song for NBC’s “Community” and more.

They say “In the end, the thing that ties all our songs together are the melodies,” adding “Our music has an appeal that can reach a wide range of different-age audiences.” That I can tell you first-hand as I saw them at a Kidrockers show. The kids liked the sound and adults were digging on the tunes. I even bought the cds.

So if you’re looking to mix it up from the mainstream and ordinary, try The 88. Upcoming LA dates too, such as The Grove March 24th and more.

See it. Click it. Turn life into art with the hot shot help of Anytime-Art.

It’s true, every picture tells a story, don’t it? And it does so a lot better without overexposed, fuzzy, so-so shots. So two OC pros, and friendly, everyday mamas, Noel and Mali (who run their own photography studios) are out to help OC moms be their own hot shots.

They’re hosting Anytime-Art Workshops, where you’’ll discover all the amazing things you and your camera can do.

Learn proper exposure, natural lighting, natural posing and creative composition without all the complicated aperture, curvature, diffraction talk. Noel and Mali will tell it like it is. Simply. Quickly. And so you get it, and get to snapping the next tooth lost, the sandcastle building, the everyday moments. Seize the skills now, ‘cause the kids get older, the memories fade, but those photos last.

Peace Love and Momminess is thrilled to sponsor these breathe-easy, artsy workshops for moms. Vsit their Anytime-Art site for next workshops, or call 714.878.1940 to save your spot (and get OC location details). (Cost: $175 for the professional 4-hr. class, includes lunch.)

Who knew? Seriously, have you seen green long stems before? My quick VLOG look at these chartreuse beauties from CaliforniaBlooms.com.

A fresh idea for Spring or St. Patties, and I’ve got a dozen to give away if you’re interested—because you deserve it (and because the my flower friends were nice enough to invite me to do so). Just comment here on the story by March 8th and tell me your favorite color of roses, is it really red only?

Oh by the way, you can order online or with the California Blooms iPhone app and save 20%; a dozen starts at $39).

We should all be so good to ourselves—or someone special who could use a little green pick-me-up. Enjoy.

Comment below by 3/8/10 to enter to score a dozen green long stems, or you can comment on the influential Momfluential site, where my story also lives). One random winner picked EOD Monday, March 8th.

It’s sad. It’s awful. And let’s not let trainer Dawn Brancheau die in vain. In my last week’s post, where I’m giving away whale watching tickets, I started the post by joking, “No, whale watching isn’t a hot topic ...” Unfortunately, now whales and their entertainment value, are on the lips of many with Wednesday’s death of the 40-year-old trainer.

All the facts are still coming in, but, to me, it sounds like the animal went mental. I say that not to be flip, just to be frank. By no means, am I saying the trainer got what she deserved—as it’s horrific; I only wonder when we will put an end to the animal circus.

Reported facts say people saw the whales agitated, playing or fighting with each other and refusing to obey commands to splash the crowd before the attack. Those watching the killing, while eating at the “Dine with Shamu,” show (do you see the silliness of those three words by the way?) saw the female trainer petting the whale when it grabbed her and plunged into the water. It reappeared on the other side of the tank and leaped up holding her, her face bloody. “The whale circled round and round, turning her over and over,” they said.

Now if you know me, you know have a big heart for animals (have been a Veggie for 20 yrs.) and don’t support the life of tricks many of these captive animals are forced to live. A 12,000-pound, 22-foot long force of nature trapped and forced to swim in circles day after day whose only purpose is to splash on command is inhumane. It’s mind-numbing. It’s flat-out greed on the part of parks. And it’s something bad waiting to happen.

Yes, it’s important to learn about these animals, and to show kids their vast beauty, but we can do it other ways. Many other ways: on Alaskan cruises (I’ve been, it’s awe-inspiring), on TV, on local whale watching trips and more. No, I’m not a fan of zoos; I really only go to The Wild Animal Park, as I respect their open terrain. Do I take my kids to the circus? No. Do I support Barnum & Bailey and the likes? HELLA no. And have I been to Sea World? Of course. But I don’t go often. I’m not saying there should be no zoos or aquariums, but it’s a fine line of what animals are okay in captivity, in their enclosures, in their forced habitats. It’s a fine line for sure, but a 12,000-pound animal trapped in such a torturous space goes way over the line.

If we stop supporting these shows and cheering in the splash zone, the demand will die and the animals can live free. Too holier-than-thou? Too PETA-speak for you? Sorry, but animals don’t have a voice, so I speak up where I can.

What say you?

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Looking for ways to protein up? You might just be down for this recipe. Simple, fast, easy protein shakes tailored for moms and kids. Calorie, carb, fat and protein counts attached too.

And psst, if you know me, you know I don’t do recipes, because welI ... I don’t cook. But I am one for good health and wellness, and I’m out to change my ways in 2010 by getting healthier and eating a more organic, balanced diet. So who knows what’s ahead.

That said, this whipped-up wealth of goodness is care of my organic-off-the-chart friend and wellness queen, Gabrielle Tschopp seen here (if I drink this maybe I’ll get her abs, green knowledge and fab cooking skills?). Enjoy.

FOR KIDS:
1 C crushed ice
8 oz organic milk, almond milk, rice milk or water
1 scoop protein powder (Designer Whey Chocolate)
1 ripe banana
1 scoop Green SuperFood (Amazing Grass Chocolate Drink Powder)
Blend and serve immediately.
Makes approx. 16 oz.:  Calories 350, Protein 27g, Carb 45g
(Note: This makes a great breakfast and/or after-school snack.  The only thing that is missing is good fat.  If allergies are not a concern, you can add 1T of natural peanut butter or other nut butter for an additional 100 calories, or chase with 2t of omega-3 fish oil or flax oil which would add about 50 calories.)

FOR MOMS:
1 C crushed ice
8 oz water (or unsweetened vanilla almond milk)
1 scoop protein powder (Designer Whey Chocolate or Vanilla)
½  ripe banana
1 T natural peanut butter
1 scoop Green SuperFood (Amazing Grass Chocolate Drink Powder)
Blend and serve immediately.
Makes approx. 16 oz.:  Calories 290, Protein 20g, Carb 15g, Fat 7g
(Note: This is a fabulous breakfast that will keep you super energized for three hours!  Drink 90 minutes prior to a workout for amazing strength and endurance.  Also good for the afternoon lull.)

By the way, I personally just made the smoothie for my kids and they guzzled happily. I’m goin’ for the Mom version in the am for breakfast. Thanks Gabi.

My first vlog! I’m vlogging about the SV moms event at The Ritz Sunday and my new all-natural find: Nature’s Edge Farm.

I’ll keep this short and sweet, just wanted to share the love of this made-from-scratch line that smells divine.

It’s all green, made from all the best stuff, is all things from soaps and lotions to oils and shampoos—and it all looks quite affordable.

Anyway, if you’re looking for a new eco love, baby, here you go. Sorry there’s no smell-o-vision.

Also, if you’re interested, our collective Whrrl from the SV moms event below.

PS. Few days left to win whale watching outta Dana Point from me.
Click to enter by Friday, Feb. 26th.

Heard of the new Madison’s Spa in Laguna Beach? I recently hit an event there for Natural Being Skincare, as the products are used at the spa. And you can save on spa services when you Fan Natural Being on Facebook. See the story and get the March savings here.

It’s prime season for Gray whale sightings in California, and a great escape on the open waters. So I wanted to invite a reader to win 4 free tickets for her family to cruise out of Dana Point, kick back, relax and enjoy the wildlife show.

I boarded the Dana Pride last week with my family and we had an extraordinary trip—with over 40 sightings. My kids adored it and the whole boat ooh’ed and ahh’ed. One lady screamed at every sighting; she was hysterical/could be heard anywhere on boat.

So wanna go? 4 tickets for a family up for grabs, thanks to Michelle from Dana Wharf Whale Watching. Just leave a comment here or on my OC Family blog, or both for an extra chance to win. I’ll pick a random winner Friday, Feb. 26th and the tickets are yours to cruise anytime.

Here’s a photo story look at our trip below. Click anywhere on the whrrl to view.

Just comment below to win the whale watching tickets.

Is it just me, or is the whole world talking about the don’t-eat-anything-that-rots Food Guru God, Michael Pollan and his new book Food Rules? Did you catch him last week on Oprah, or ever other news outlet in America? And are you taking it to heart or do you get a headache just thinking about all you’re doing wrong?

I say “blasted” food rules, ‘cause the guy and his easy-breezy rules are causing me stress. Take this morning, I just grabbed for my whole grain Trader Joe’s oatmeal, thinking I was doing my body good, but then flashed to his “eat only foods that rot” rule. Packaged oatmeal? I think that ranks up there with MRE’s. Ugh, I ate it anyway, but kind of kicked myself with every bite.

I know he’s right. I shouldn’t eat foods my grandmother wouldn’t recognize. And fat-free has made us all fat. But I have no more room for guilt in my life, and want to run for a Reese cup and Hershey bar when I think of all I’ve got to change.

His philosophy is summed up in those 7 simple words now heard around the world: “Eat food, not too much, mostly plants.”

How can 7 little words cause me such deep-set wrinkles? (Which btw, I’d so get botoxed if I didn’t think it’d rot my body and give me the Hurricane 5 Facelift look.)

A few of the other rules he lives by:

#11:Avoid food products advertised on television.

Avoid food products that contain high fructose corn syrup.

#37 The whiter the bread, the sooner you’ll be dead.

#17:Eat food cooked by humans, not corporations.

#19:If it came from a plant, eat it; if it was made in a plant, don’t.

Pay more, eat less.

#36:Don’t eat breakfast cereals that change the color of the milk.

#58:Eat all the junk food you want as long as you cook it yourself.

So are you on board with Pollan? Did you see Food Inc? Do you think America will possibly change its fast food, processed, oversized ways?

A few other other reads featured on the PLM Book Lounge include The Well Rested Woman, Age Is Just A Number, True Mom Confessions, Not The Life I Ordered, If Women Ran The World and Quiet Mind.

No that wasn’t a typo. The symphony can be way cool for kids, really, as evident in my recent outing for the Super Hero soundtrack performance. More Family Concerts always ahead from the PSO. Click for the upcoming PSO family events from their musical mornings and musical storytime.

Here’s a quick look at the fun you can expect from PSO events. At our orchestral outing, my little guy didn’t roll his eyes once, didn’t beg to get out of his seat and there wasn’t even negotiating to “be good and just stay for 15 minutes more, already!”

My super kid loved the sounds of the Super Heroes, the grand scale of it all, and a special Mom Day Date Out. I’m all for the arts and any way to entice kids to music that’s not Hannah Montana and Jonas Brothers 24/7.

That said, click my whrrl below to see our PSO day:

And take an AudioBoo listen to a sound of the stage performance
(I’m kinda whispering, so I didn’t bug all around):

Click for the upcoming PSO family events.

What do you think of these moxie media ladies? Did you see Cindy’s NOH8 subtle statement? And are you watching Sarah on Fox?

Personally, I love Cindy’s move and message. Wow, what a gutsy act, and I feel like it got a little lost in the media, so I wanted to call it out.

The usually quiet and reserved Cindy recently posed for this NOH8 Campaign with this loud-and-clear, silent vote for Marriage Equality. Turns out, Cindy contacted the nonprofit photo project to pose, following in the steps of daughter Meghan. Love that the mom-daughter duo took such a public stand in spite of hubby and daddy John McCain’s opposing position. It brings the “stand by your man” message into 2010, I think. And I dig that John handled it well, respecting their opinions, but held firm on his own. “We are family,” but we aren’t issued to drink the kool-aid. Cheers to that.

And as for the other recent right wing media move, Palin on Fox, well it’s not as much of a lovefest from me. Go figure (code for: see my Palin on Newsweek post), but I’m open to watching. Are you? I do think it was another gutsy move on her part, as she put herself in the spotlight with a big bullseye target for those who love to hate her and are just waiting for her to trip up. And of course, it’s savvy, as Palin fans are thrilled that she now has her own media platform to speak her mind regularly and clear up any matters instantly.

I surf all the stations, CNN, FOX, MSNBC, so I tuned into watch her debut a few weeks ago. Her banter with O’Reilly was okay, I think he went a little soft on her, I think she totally dodged some questions and overall I think she blatantly used the platform for Pres. vs. Commentary. I expect more hardball hitters from Bill or I’m out. And as for Palin on Glenn Beck’s show, I watched that too, and almost did that throw-up-in-your-mouth thing from the creepy love-to-love ya hour of “the world’s gonna blow if you aren’t President, Sarah!” Really, Beck, why didn’t you just fall to the ground, bow three times and kiss her feet (or suck her toes, seriously, what was going on there?).

FOX will get ratings, advertisers will be thrilled, but the whole Fair & Balanced tag is getting a little watered down now with Palin, Huckabee etc. O’Reilly better bring it, or they are so gonna need me to write a new tag for them soon. Have you watched lately? Catch me up.

What do you think? Love or hate Cindy and Sarah’s latest? Right on to the right wingers or still no way and left all the way?

Me? Usually left, but officially and Indie.

Two new Party Girlz are on the OC kids’ birthday party scene. And they go by the appropriate name of Party Girlz—a talented twosome who bring arts and ease to Moms with their cake and photography biz.

One half of the duo, Lisa, makes the amazing cakes (like the one seen above), and delivers it to your house the day of your party. The other creative party spirit is Liga, who takes your party pictures that day, so you can relax and actually enjoy your girl or boy’s special day.

The new business is a savvy, smart idea that fills a void I haven’t quite seen addressed around town. And what’s refreshing is their take-charge ways. For my girl’s party, I simply emailed Lisa my robot invite I planned to send out, and threw out a simple, “I was thinking something like this.” Done. I never said another word really, and I was blown away the day of the party when she arrived with Robot Girl in full caked-out attire.  I never dreamed it would be so fantastic, creative, right on, large in scale and utterly charming. She even added a blinking heart—and the head, body and skirt were each different flavors. It totally rocked our dance party theme.

And what a treat the photos by Liga were. I didn’t have to rush around capturing shots for once in my life. She gathered the kids for group shots, and even created a thank you card for me to mail out to all the parents. It was the first time in ages I’ve actually ever sent one out; I normally have my good intentions that quickly go out the door with the ripped wrapping paper and Barbie boxes. Liga got shots I would certainly have missed and photos of all my gal’s besties.

So bravo, to Party Girlz for making this mom’s life easier—and my girl’s day ridiculously special.

Have a party coming up? Party Girlz bring it, literally. Have ‘em bring the cake and pics to you; contact them at 949.395.1628 or 423.335.7985.

Cheers.

Yesterday, I went in search of cover for my kids in preparation for StormWatch 2010, and we are now equipped with, count ‘em, 4 umbrellas! This is seriously a big deal in my house.

For the last 20 years, if it rained, I got wet. No biggie, right? The wet dog look was just so me. I couldn’t be bothered with pesky umbrellas. The Search and Rescue to find an umbrella in my house was simply never worth it, and I was, frankly, accustomed to the Debbie dart-and-dash run from A to B. It was what it was. And my kids were following course.

So what’s with the umbrella arsenal now? Mom Guilt, of course—that deafening drone, which eventually can’t be ignored.

You see a few weeks ago when it rained, I saw all the other kids in their super cute raingear, fun boots and trendy chic slickers. My kids? I preached the “What, you’re gonna melt? You’ll be fine!” Or I’d send ‘em with Daddy’s boring black pop-up—IF I were lucky enough to find it in my two-second check out the door. Then, it happened, I saw THAT look from my girl. The one you catch every once in awhile when you see your kids look at other kids with kid-envy and love for others’ mommies. Ouch, right in the heart. My girl’s friend had one of those perfectly charming, clear, bubble, old-school umbrellas that poured a message of “love and a well-cared child” (ok, I exaggerate, but you know what I mean).

So yesterday, we were off to the store in search of cover and Mommy Redemption. I didn’t find the old-school charm, but we found penguins and zebras fixes that will do just fine. Plus, I picked my girl up some polka dot Paul Frank rainboots on sale. Wow, Mommy-score bonus points.

So we’re weatherproofed, and ... I’m getting there, as usual … a drop-by-drop journey to be “one of those moms” who always has it all together. A girl can dream. And, let’s be serious, so can my kids.

Stay safe this rainy SoCal week.

Somebody just dubbed her the “Frankenstein of the iPod generation,” great line. For the love of Jesus, what was she thinking? Here’s Heidi Montag on the cover of People with her newest new nose, bigger boobs, tucked ears, sucked neck, higher brows, smaller chin, fatter cheeks, new hips, butt and “more.”

The 23-yr. old reality “star” from The Hills just dropped 30k on her new extreme nip-tucked self. She admits she’s addicted to plastic surgery (uh yea) and can’t wait to get more.

Oh Spencer, why didn’t you stop her? Strike that. Heidi’s mom would have stopped her I’m sure, but she didn’t get the chance, as she wasn’t even told. (Imagine being her mom and seeing your all-new girl.)

So ... the post-Heidi? She’s got that Jennifer Grey thing—you know she’s in there somewhere, but can’t quite figure it out.

And ... the new fab Heidi hits just as her new album drops. Well played. Hey, that’s fame. And we may all now remember her name, even if we can’t quite recognize her face.

Sorry Heidi, but boob move, bad message, and, really, you told the world you got a new vajayjay?

Funniest take on Speidi’s Heidi is still Anderson Cooper’s shot last year after her Miss Universe performance, saying. “She tweeted she had so much fun, and she also thanked God. I don’t think God had anything to do with this production.” Click the video below for more.

Oh, and speaking of AC, who’s in Haiti of course, imagine if the holy-rolling Heidi would have used her Hollywood cash for the true down and out’s of the world instead of her continuous how-hot-am-I makeovers? Can I get an amen?

Gotta go give my girl an extra “you’re great just the way you are” hug and smooch.

Sorry, I know there are more important matters in the world as mentioned above, but a little levity helps me keep going.

A Kooza ticket is the hot ticket in town right now. I went, I saw, I was blown away by how insanely hard the show works for your money—and how the whole night is an amazing escapist act from our 2010 realities.

Friday I was invited to the premiere of Kooza in Irvine at OC Great Park. I didn’t quite know what to expect, as I’d never been to a Cirque show. Everyone gushed, “Oh, Debbie, you’re going to lo-lo-lo-lo-love Cirque!” “Alright already,” I thought. I’ll see about that with my slightly cynical “gimme your best shot” silent Cirque dare.

And? By the second half, I was speechless.

Seriously, my jaw dropped, my eyes bugged out, my head was shaking back and forth and my palms were a little sweaty thinking “dang, somebody might die here.” And when I wasn’t mute, I was LMAO at the audience schmucks who got pulled up on stage. Very funny.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone work that hard to entertain me. It was Big Top contortion circus freak meets Evil Knievel crazy meets gorgeous, artistic expressions of movement and to-die-for music. All jammed into a two-hour show.

Yea, my mind flipped when the girl walked her body backwards around her folded self, but what really put me over the edge was the Wheel of Death devil guys who came out and rocked it like something out of Mad Max. Everyone around me gasped, and it felt like time stood still. The crowd energy was crazy. I looked around and realized at that moment that somehow we’d all forgotten the economy, the war on terror, the daily grind and were just being ridiculously entertained. What a treat. What an escape. The Kooza crew brought it! Intense, captivating entertainment.

I know many pass on the show because of the ticket prices, but it really is insanely worth it, worth saving up for, worth a special splurge/birthday/anniversary.

So there you have it. My two cents on a night worth every penny.

Show info/tickets on the Kooza site or by calling 1 800 450-1480. 18 additional performances added by the way under the blue-and-yellow big top at Orange County Great Park in Irvine. Show leaves February 14, 2010.

My whrrl from the night below, click anywhere to take a look.

After flying over the holidays, I’ve decided that I’m over all of our politically correct American ways. I say profile like El Al. How about you?

On December 21st, I was against profiling as I leisurely headed to Florida—more worried about forgetting all my kids’ video games than I was remotely preoccupied with Nigerian Al Qaeda accomplices. That was the departing flight.

The return flight, post December 25th underwear bomber whackjob, was a different story. I was spooked. I profiled with my eyes, kept my ears open and honestly wished the US would be watching my back more and protecting my kids more, so I didn’t have to think about where the exits and fire extinguishers were if the side of the plane went up.

Another thing that stuck with me on my airport travels home were images of our soldiers all over at all gates … in their fatigues, with fresh crew cuts and backpacks in tow. They were all well-mannered, but expressionless mostly. You could tell they had heavy hearts. And with every camo’ed uniform, I got a little more PO’d and much less PC; wondering why 30,000 more of our guys had to be sent off to fight these crazies, yet we had to be all proper and PC and couldn’t even profile characters that might fit the bill standing next to us in the airport.

Let’s get serious. El Al airlines has had the world whacks after them for years, yet remained terror-free on flights since they started profiling 30 years ago. We aren’t even stopping all-cash, no-luggage, one-way travelers from Yemen after their family members alert us.

I know the system is always going to fail in some ways, so let’s take all the extra reasonable precautions possible and pull aside those who fit the profile. If you’re Arab, male, 18-30, etc., and we want to question you because people from your part of the world are trying to kill us everyday, it is what it is. That comes with the territory when you want to come here. And if you don’t like it, pick another country.

Harsh? Perhaps. But I didn’t like sitting in 21 A on the way home, and wondering if I should leap over the seats if I see 18A’s underwear light up. And you never know what a Mama Bear might do. Thank God for that guy who took down the Nigerian, thank God for US soldiers I had on my plane, and shame on Janet Napolitano/Homeland Security for saying the US did everything right and that the passengers and crew acted together to take on the terrorists December 25th. That’s your job, lady, and you all should have never let him through in the first place.

Let the profiling begin.

(No, I’m not ready for the body scans yet; unsure of the radiation, etc. Let’s see how backroom “sitdowns” go first.)

Christina Attiken, mobile wellness guru and truly kind-hearted soul, travels OC to LA assessing busy Moms on the move and showing them how to breathe easier.

She has studied physical therapy for years and traveled to Africa and beyond to look at bodies in action.

Her business, MOMeezPT.com, is as much preventative medicine, as it is finding the cure to what ails you. So if you think headaches, tension, neck- and backaches have to be part of your daily routine, think again. Christina is here to look at your daily juggle and grind upclose and personal in the home where you operate nonstop.

For more backstory on her one-of-a-kind, one-to-one business, take a look at our video. We chat body movements, global lifestyles, breathing and everything else that goes into a more balanced walk of life. I caught up with her at the Renaissance Sports Club, and then we moved our talk to my home for a one-one-one consult to cure my aching back.

By the way, Christina’s clients range from busy moms literally juggling kids, groceries, careers and other daily heavy lifting to SoCal’s athletes and more.

She is amazing and can works wonders to identify the root of your pain, and help you help yourself with small steps to major strides.

Click play to cue our chat:

Party on and breathe easy.

If you have a kids party to plan, but are theme tapped-out and exhausted by the mere idea, you’re not alone—but you are in luck. OC’s own Lisa Cohen is the creative force behind Creative Parties for Kids. She has a wealth of ideas and an unending resource of entertainers, outfits and party connections to make sure you don’t sweat a thing.

Whatever you want, or your little prince or princess has their heart set on, Lisa will make happen.

Many OC moms may know Lisa as the “Bunny Foo Foo Story Lady,” who reads at many of Orange County’s posh hot spots, but may not know her for her party planning expertise. Lisa has been making kids deliriously happy on their birthdays for over 15 years . She’s hosted two of our children’s parties over the years, and what’s so ideal is her can-do nature and creative spirit.

With Lisa, you simply tell her what your kids are into, and she’ll suggest an array of themes, plan out the day, suggest coordinated crafts and party favors, and touch base with you several times to ease your mind.

If you’re thinking dance party, she can hook you up with OCHSA theater majors, she’ll find you a Disney princess for an Ariel bash, she has Spidey’s best lookalikes, train conducters, high tea hostesses, and the list goes on ... and on ... and on.  And she’ll even create an all-original party for you if you can’t think of a specific theme.

Lisa loves what she does, loves kids, gets kids and seriously aims to please.

So if 2010 calls for a first birthday, a toddler party or even a teen cool kids bash, Lisa’s the gal with the party people and creative ideas.

Visit her at Creative Parties for Kids or simply call 945.645.8044.

My girl and I stepped out for a new holiday tradition, Teddy Bear Tea Time at the Ritz Carlton. The Ritz is a hot spot anytime of year, but during the holidays it’s particularly perfect.

A few weeks ago while at my hairdresser’s, my stylist (and great conversationalist) asked me what my holiday tradition was with my girl ... that special something just she and I did together every year. “Uh, um, hmm, let’s see … it’s a, well ... ” Apparently I didn’t have one! How could that possibly be? I don’t know, but I didn’t, never even thought about it. So when she said her and her mom always went to the Ritz for tea, it sounded delicious. Special and refined, girlie and something sure to look forward to.

I called the Ritz and sure enough, the last Teddy Bear Tea of the year was December 20th and they kindly invited us to attend.

From the first valet salutations to the inspired views in every direction, the day made for a gorgeous, charming, princess-like outing. At the Tea, fluffy white pillows lined the floor for the kids and red-checked linens lined their tables. Magic took the stage to wow and entertain. Cocoa, cookies, finger sandwiches and a brunch assortment were elegantly served for all (and Mimosas flowed moms and dads). I could almost see my girl’s invisible tiara, as she fully embraced her special day and Mommy and Me time.

After the show, we walked the hotel, took in the décor and the amazing life-sized surf gingerbread house, then relaxed outside by the koi ponds. There was an extra special Ritz touch and holiday pizazz.

We left refreshed, entertained, treated and I left with a new tradition. While my girl and I will outgrow our Teddy Bear Tea time in the next few years, I suspect we will graduate to a cup of tea and inspired conversation at the restaurant overlooking the ocean. The pomp and circumstance set the stage for years ahead of rich time together.

Do you have an annual one-on-one holiday tradition? I’m still in need of one with my little guy.

More Ritz hot happenings ahead on their site calendar.

More here on tea and conversation and cast-iron tea sets (very hot right now).

If you’ve got time to chill over the holidays, a hot pick is Disney On Ice. I hit Media Night last night for a first look at the ice spectacular. And it was pretty icy spectacular.

You can get a skate-by-skate in my Whrrl photo story (by clicking anywhere below) to see a little Lightning McQueen, Little Mermaid, Lion King and the flying Tink finale. The show was like all things Disney: done right, done big and jam-packed.

It was cute to see my kids lost in the magic, see ‘em on the edge of their seats with some of the theatrical drama and simply just see them really enjoying themselves.

I loved everything except … those aisle vendors! Ah, my kids wanted every- and anything, of course. Snow cones. Popcorn. Mickey spinners! So, advice: go full, go with a pre-agreed item on your kiddo’s wish list and walk fast past the merchandising … and you’ll have a perfect night.

The show runs in LA through this weekend, moves to Anaheim next week, then onto Ontario and Long Beach through Jan. 10th.

It’s for sure a hot show to catch (was all over the news today)—and I think it would probably be a very fun surprise gift for the kids, if you don’t already have tickets (coupon code in my whrrl btw).

But enough of what I thought, here’s the skinny straight from a kid, my little “boo,” who jumped in my live AudioBoo last night talking about Simba skating. Just click play below for the short 1-minute listen.

Nothing says holidays like a lion rippin’ open his Christmas loot.

It’s good times at the Wild Animal Park this year. And you’ve got three weekends left to soak up the gifting and watching of antelope and other species at play.

During the park’s Wild Holidays 12 Days of Enrichment, kids get to hand-paint presents for lions, gorillas, elephants, vultures and meerkats. And if you’re lucky, you’ll get a peek at them “opening” their present-pretty boxed goods of popcorn and insect-tubes throughout the day.

2009 marks the first year for these wild holiday happenings. I love the idea and inclusion and kindness to our furry friends this time of year. I’ve always been a big fan of the Wild Animal Park and their natural, wide-open habitat, and their holiday spirit didn’t disappoint.

Other kid enrichment activities going down through January 2nd at the Park include creating mazes for meerkats and making tacos out of hay and food pellets for the elephants. Yum, Chipotle, get on that.

There’s also centers for kids to craft presents for their own cats and dogs, slime time and more. A black light puppet show wraps the night and later evening hours get you your money’s worth (all activities are free with admission).

Here’s a look at my press preview at the Wild Holidays opening weekend. It rained cats and dogs, but like that was gonna stop us. Click anywhere on the whrrl below to see the photo story and get a taste of the fun:

And here’s a quick 1-min sute listen and some rainy weather animal downlow from our singing tram guide Molly:

With birthdays and events, the pressure is always on the give the perfect gift. Just a reminder that it’s not the cost but the heartfelt sentiment. It’s easy to say, but so many are guilted and guided by the price tags. Times are tough and we should all give ourselves and each other a break.

Every event is an opportunity to teach our kids about the beauty of handmade creativity. Remember the amazingly creative, heartfelt gifts we gave to our parents, grandparents, friends and teachers when we were kids. They were gifts given with genuine love, thought and, often, for no special reason. Somehow as we grew up, the concept of gift giving got lost. And it’s quite blurred during this 2-week rush.

Dr. Gary Chapman, who authored The Five Love Languages describes gift giving as a fundamental expression of love that transcends all cultures. Gifts are visual symbols of love. Something you can hold in your hand and say, “Look, he was thinking of me,” or, “She remembered me.” You must be thinking of someone to give a gift. The gift itself is a symbol of that thought. Cost is not the important part. It’s that you thought of someone, the thought expressed by actually getting and giving the gift is the expression of love.

Here’s to bringing that spirit back and celebrating the special people in our lives. Start with the sentiment and the rest will follow. And get creative with the kids, encouraging them to make instead of always purchasing.

Sorry I just can’t let this one go. The count is up to like 13. Seriously?! Tiger, what up? You got the Swedish model and go for the Hoot Rat, Hoochie Mamas in Vegas?

What is it with men who gotta go for sloppy seconds off Las Vegas Blvd. when they’ve got the hot mama at home?

I admit it, at first I was pulling for Tiger when the saga broke, I even kinda took his side with the news of his lacerated, semiconscious status. And it’s still totally uncool if she roughed him up, but as the drama oozes like a bad case at a public health clinic, I’m left dumbfounded at my clean-cut, collared, all-American Tiger.

Wow. And they’re ALL hoochie mamas. I mean, Tool Academy contestants? Really?

I don’t know the pscyhological mind warp behind his “transgressions,” I can’t understand the illogical nature of thinking no one might find out, and I can’t comprehend his overinflated ego and callous family detachment….but at least I learned something from this whole thing.

I now know the definition of a hood rat (where have I been, under an Orange County rock?)

Thanks, TMZ. I’m enlightened. (And if you don’t know the song, think 2 Live Crew.)

Do you get Tiger and his hood rats? Do you think men just forgot about Lorena Bobbit? (He’s lucky Elin only had a wedge, fo’ shizzle.)

More day in the life ahead, maybe even more classy next time.

I think I’m in deep diddly doo do. I’ve started bustin’ rhymes, and not in a good way. I’m suddenly speaking in animated kid phraseology. How did this happen? Words like wowie kazowie and lover bugger just flow from my lips. Unforced, unknowingly and without embarrassment.

These are common speak of conversation, the lexicon on everyone’s lips, right?

Wrong—according to my husband. “Corny” was the exact descriptor he used.

Hmm, well I can only hope I don’t utter these on a client call, a chic lunch date, or some other non “such a Mom” event.

That said, I’m off like a prom dress. How’s that? Sassier? Adultish? Less Mom speak?

Who am I kidding? Later, alligator.

Proof of my wowie kazowie mispeak, as I spoke of the line at Small World (long live You Tube, short live my educated credibility).

Meet the exhibition style of Muzeo museum.

Muzeo is an interesting slice of traveling exhibits and community spirit in the midst of Anaheim—not always the first place you think when you think of the arts.

The rather unknown spot is a daily escape from the ordinary, if you’re in need of some culture and want a quick getaway versus a long day at The Getty.

Muzeo displays four different exhibits a year and sprinkles in artsy events that coincide with each main showing. For example, they held a recent Tea with Josephine during the Napoleon exhibit (more on that event in my whrrl photo story below).

The Treasures of Napoleon runs now though January. After that, think Blues, Frogs and Chocolate.

I like the diversity and range of the arts and think kids will especially dig the 2010 exhibits.

Click anywhere on my whrrl below to see our day, get to know Muzeo better and see the dates of upcoming showings.

Meet OC’s best facepainter. A kid’s favorite. A parent’s dream. A party saver.

I’m gonna gush on Kari Ivey ‘cause I love her that much. Seriously, she is amazing and can make your kid’s party. The crazy thing about Kari is she just kind of blends into the background, does her kid magic and presto little Picasso kids emerge—all painted up and jazzed to show off their new looks.

Kari does sparkly, spooky, sweet, whatever the child wants. Sometimes she’ll match an outfit or go with a theme, anything goes really. And her attitude with the kids is great. Hey, it could be a little hard to handle 30 kids hovering for their time in the limelight, but she is no stress and all talent.

If you’re even thinking of hiring some everyday, ordinary facepainter, you might want to rethink it, and call Kari. Her detail and creativity is amazing. And your party parents really appreciate seeing their kids so thrilled and painted perfectly.

Oh and her paints rock: FDA friendly, of course, cosmetic-grade paints for theater makeup and face and body painting. All of which means they don’t crack like the cheapo stuff.

So if you have a birthday party or holiday bash, Kari’s your gal. And she’s always in demand for corporate events where a facepainter can add some fun and energy to a gig.
That goes for kids painting to adult costume parties to sports events.

Okay, I’m done gushing. But when the gush fits, I’m there, because every parent knows the stress of a kid’s party. And I’m all for anything that gives Mom more peace of mind (and artistic expression).

Here’s my very quick look (as in :30) at Kari in action:

Fun photos by Mali of MaliWorkman.com and Liga Svikss of Fotograafe.com. Thanks, ladies!

The Battle of the Smithsonian, and my cast chat interview.

Did you catch the flick in theaters? If not, Ben Stiller and Robin Williams rock again, the effects are amazing and the monkey smackdowns are too much (fun bonus DVD footage of the monkey training). You’ll see the exhibits come alive after dark again, this time as they are going to be retired to the archives of the Smithsonian.

What I like about the movie is there is no inappropriate age thing to worry about and it’s as funny for kids as it is the moms (and dads), who have to watch it 500 times. And it has a solid moral—that the key to Happiness is doing what you love with people you love. Well said.

I had a chance to do an audio interview with the very cool and funny Mizuo Peck who played Sacagawea; take a listen here to our Tweetmic chat.

I also had 5 copies to giveaway (thanks 20th Century Fox), sorry if you missed out. 

Do you know “Britian’s best new band”? A fun, funky listen anytime, anywhere.

The Noisettes are an indie rock trio from London, who got together in ’03. Wild Young Hearts hit earlier this year and is a little funk and disco meets R&B pop.

Great background sounds if you’re having a party or just a different vibe for the everyday scene.

Here’s a sample of their sound when on Letterman.

Peace out.

Thinking of some winter wonderland fun at Disney? PLM just got a VIP sneak peek of all the sights and sounds. See my video of our jam-packed day start to finish.

I’ll skip the small talk and invite you to simply cue the video. It’s ALL there—the wintery scene, me & Mickey’s mousespeak, the newest Princess and more. Congrats again, Andrea for winning the PLM giveaway to bring your family for the day and join our crazy crew.

You can also click anywhere on my whrrl below for a live photo story look at the day. (Every picture tells a story, don’t it.)

If you sweat the goodie bags and party favors, this one’s for you.

Imagine not having to do the last-minute scramble for goodie bags for your kids’ parties. The concept of quality favors and you don’t lift a finger. Too good to be true? Ah, no I have video proof of the beauty.

Let me start by saying I don’t cook, I’m not crafty, and like all Moms, I have no time to do anything, so when I tweeted with Kristen from Scrumptulicious, it was divine goodie bag intervention, I think.

Kristin’s artisan bakery line is clever, creative, organic, gourmet and can be made gluten free or however you wish.

For my girl’s birthday party, I simply told Kristen the theme (dance) and she kicked around some ideas and came back to me with related recipes for favors. We went with simple sugar cookies rockstar shaped, but she can do whatever you want and as fancy as you desire (cherry pistachio, chocolate orange espresso, eggnog shortbread, cherry white chocolate and the list goes on).

The treats are made from natural, fresh ingredients and she gives all a handmade touch and adorable presentation. They way surpass store bought anything and the array of “nothing” that most of us throw together in goodie bags.

What makes the story sweeter is Kristen’s backstory. I gotta say I never knew of her artisan line on Twitter, only her inspired, positive, aspiring tweets and takes on life. She clearly stood out.

It turns out while Kristen was going about life as she knew it, as a Creativity Coach and full-time marketing person, she was laid off—like the rest of the world. She needed a financial fix and fast, as her husband was and is suffering from a terminal kidney disease that insurance doesn’t cover. So out of desperation and ultimately necessity, Scrumptulicious was born. “We’re fighting kidney disease and homelessness everyday. Scrumptulicious ultimately been a blessing, as our family is closer, I’m focused on creativity and cooking/baking (my passion), and I know that my husband is enjoying spending what little time he has left,” she bravely shared with me. (Read her blog of gratitude lists and life’s ups and downs.)

Wow. I’m inspired. I’m impressed. And I’ve got a big sweet spot for Kristen, her family and Scrumptulicious. If this story touches you and you’ve got an occasion (the holidays, a birthday, a thoughtful gift) that calls for sweet treats, Kristen’s got the goods to make you look like the hostess with the mostest.

And she ships anywhere, OC moms. Sweet, again.

My giddy gush on Kristen’s adorable goodie bags:

Can’t you just hear Newsweek cackling, as they comp’ed their cover? Rubbing their hands together with that Mad Scientist laugh. The gall. The genius. The great debate they were about to run with.

A show of hands of those who think it’s right—and those who just left Newsweek’s readership forever. Personally, I sat with the image many days and came to the conclusion that it’s right on.

Let’s face it, Sarah’s a big girl, she’s been around the block a lap or two, and her women’s intuition maybe should have gone off the second she cocked her head just right, threw a little hip out and gave that sexy Runner’s World leg pose. “Hmmm,  this could be taken out of context? Get repurposed? The press could run wild with this?” Thoughts of Perez Hilton, perky Katie Couric and Newsweek should have raced through her presidential head.

Don’t be pulling a beauty queen Prejean on us, the “but I only intended it for so and so.”

Remember Obama’s hot bod beach shot on the Washingtonian? Sexist? He owned it, I think.  As should she.

Hey, I don’t hate her because she’s a Hunter and I’m a Veggie, or because she can see Russia and I can only see Catalina, or even because of her kill ‘em with kindness Prejean-like smile (the new duo) when she’s sticking it to the media—right now I’m just annoyed that’s she’s got better legs than me and I can’t even get to the gym when I press myself to do so.

You betcha I like the cover.

How ‘bout you? “Dislike” her because she’s beautiful? Because she ran away from her term? Because she left those kids on the trail and is now toting them on her book tour? Or just because she’s a little right wing crazy and went rogue on such a good guy like McCain? Or maybe you love her. Speak your mind. Everyone’s free to do so, right?

Imagine note cards that bloom wildflowers. Pretty wild.

If you’re over overpopulating landfills with your cards that get trashed in seconds after opening, and the evites and ecards aren’t quite cutting it, send some eco love. Local Laguna fine arts artist Brynne Cogorno of Backward Prints creates tree-free card art that you tear up and plant to bloom some green goodness. Really.

Her new OC line is made of from plant fibers, organic cotton and the skin of Daphne Bushes grown in Nepal (wow). That green recipe is then embedded with wildflower seeds to bloom poppies, snapdragons, daisies and more.  Each note print is hand drawn and hand printed using block printing.

“I wanted to make people smile and show them how easy it is to adopt a little green into their lives.” Brynne told me. Hey, I’m all for easy, creativity, sustainability—and I love the handmade heart of it all, so I’m in. Watch our recent chat in Laguna (below) for more firsthand scoop you’ll dig.

So maybe the next time an occasion calls, skip the landfill and think Backward Prints—great to give solo or as a pack. They’re fun as birthday party invites (plus make a cool kid’s craft at the party), and are great for the holidays and as green stocking stuffers.  By the way, Brynne can custom design inserts for any occasion.

See our chat, her array of eco and my at-home demo planting:

The onslaught of more, bigger, faster continues everyday. Just turn on the TV. Let’s add a little slo-mo to our gal’s lives and maybe they’ll grow up and say no to the hype, and yes to more self confidence and real girl power.

We hit the Laguna Playhouse press preview Friday to see how the cat and mouse would go from book and big screen to small stage. I didn’t quite know what to expect and wondered how the adaptation would play.

It was adorable. My kids cackled and were quickly drawn in as Stuart began his big adventures in the big city. A cast of 15 or so local, talented youth actors brought the story to life.

The sweet Stuart and wickedly naughty Snowbell the cat were perfectly cast. I fell for Stuart and couldn’t get enough of the cat’s theatrical moves and mischief. My kids were equally hooked and kept talking about the duo the next day.

What I love about children’s theater is the leap of imagination needed to follow along. TV and movies have the power to wow kids with smoke and mirrors and animated tricks, but theater requires the mind to play free with a simple, intimate, emotional connection.

Kudos to the young cast for their artful, heartfelt, funny adaptation of such a classic kids’ favorite. The play wraps the 15th, so get while the getting is good if you’re interested in going to this Laguna Playhouse production.

The above illustrations were on display at the Playhouse. They are scenes from the play and were drawn by kids at the Braille Institute of OC. Amazing art, and a story in itself.

Ever had that women’s intuition of a man’s bad idea? I had it Thursday night, and should have listened to myself.

I was planning my girl’s birthday party with a crowd of many coming over, so I asked my husband to pick up some carpet cleaner to spot clean. Somehow that translated into my Mr. Tool Time “arh-arh-arh” and a call for him to strap on his testosterone belt and go rent an industrial cleaning machine. For some reason, I went with it.

Fast forward 2 days after the soaked carpet has mostly dried, and there we were cutting the birthday cake with my crowd of many. Suddenly, this smell of diapers meets wet dog meets wet towel meets stinky shoes wafted over me. What in the world?

I opened windows, sprayed air freshener, lit candles, nothing worked—and I couldn’t figure out what it could be. Then, I stuck my face in the carpet. Good God almighty! What had he stirred up? It’s one of those smells you never forget. It stays with you, in your mind, in your memory, in your membranes—and in your carpet.

After talking to a pro, I realized the smell kicked in that day because my husband turned on the heater in the morning to dry out the carpet, which actually activates the leftover moisture and moldly, wanna-pass-out smell.

So now my $5 can of Woolite carpet cleaner has turned into a professional carpet cleaner job needed STAT ! (Or maybe new carpet if I find a deal; it’s that bad.)

Smell me later. Hopefully wiser from this one.

Am I alone? What has your Mr. Fix It “fixed” lately?

Who’s in? I’m inviting the flu and embracing the Swine. Why wait for the unknown when you could get it over with now?

We’ll have movies, candy, a bounce house, but no antibacterial anything. So come as you are and ready the Tamiflu because we’ll be germ-swapping without a care in the world.

RSVP as soon as you can, as I have to prep the cold compress goody bags.

Cheers, Debbie

PS: yes, this is a total faux party. I had to embrace the ridiculousness, as my neighbor just hit the pediatrician and he said the parties are hitting the OC. OMG, say it ain’t so.

For more on the insanity, visit CNN. And for my Swine symptoms video with local CHOC doc, click here.

Give your hanna-me-down jammies back and pay it forward.

If your kids are like most, they outgrow jammies all year. They’ve got the winter set, the summer set and when the season returns, their arms, legs and little waists are the next size up.

If you buy Hannas, simply bring your jammies back to the Hanna Fashion Island and they will donate them to MOMS Orange County and United Way, helping families in need. It’s easy, earth-friendly and teaches kids to think of others.

If you haven’t tried Hanna Andersson jammies, they’re a super cute, eco, sleep essential to check out. All sleepwear is 100% organically grown with a super soft cotton, smooth seams, no tags, stay-in-place cuffs and stretch waists.

Hanna. Snooze. And everybody wins.

PLM’s video look at Fashion Island’s ‘Passport To Luxury,’ and what’s hot now. Learn sexy beach hair, Kate Spade handbags, home style and Closet fun.

Do you know this annual event? The Passport To Luxury is fabulous, benefits charity and is FI first class all the way. It’s like a swanky bar crawl with champagne, chic clothing and a Bloomie’s beauty bar. The night is put on by the luxe Riviera Magazine.

We got our passport, strolled the stores and got stamped at six in hopes to win a style spree.

My date was my fashionista 5 year old, but it’s ideal to hit with a favorite “older” girlfriend, as you’re mini bar wined and appetizer-dined while you get introduced to the latest fashions.

And you may think you already know what’s going down at the Newport mall, but that’s the thing, you discover styles and stores you may never have known about.

I’m a Fashion Island regular, as I love the outdoor scene, take my lab and the kids get their fountain fix, so I thought I knew all of this mall, but I crushed on some new loves that night with my chance to mingle, shop and drink Lemon Drops.

Each store had their own signature menu to “get you in the mood” for shopping and relax your disposable spending—with good intentions. Proceeds from your night’s purchases go to Juvenile Diabetes.

Catch up on what’s hot with PLM’s video look at the Passport To Luxury night out:

Also here’s a whrrl look at the night:
Also, here’s a Whrrl look at our Mommy & Me Girls Night Out.:

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